Did you know?
That any aspect of you that has been left unhealed will be transferred to your child? When the child is in the womb, the child will experience everything the mother experiences. This includes emotional stress.
This is called emotional transference
Many aspiring mothers know the importance of a healthy diet and living a stress free pregnancy because they know it will affect their child. But very few know that the rabbit hole goes much deeper than this. We as homeopaths know this. I will simplify things, lets say their is a female wanting to be pregnant but she is aware of certain qualities of hers, perhaps she is aware that:
1.) she has anger
2.) she is stuborn
3.) fault finding
4.) moody
5.) selfish
6.) suffers depression
ALL this emotional stress the mother feels will get transferred to the child while she is pregnant. And the child has no choice in the matter because they are inside and connected to their mother. They have to feel this trauma, there is no escape route from mom until they are born. They will be born with emotional imprints, of depression, anger, and unhappiness.
Do you want an example of how poor emotional health and lifestlye can affect a child?
Jane Doe is pregnant. Jane Doe smokes, drinks (alcoholic), eats junk food, never exercises, suffers from depression, has loads of anger toward men, is racked with guilt, and she doesn’t love herself.
The child is born premature, with a low I.Q, learning disabilities, asthma, unhappiness, and a autoimmune disease to go with it ! And after birth, the picture doesn’t exactly brighten. The child grows up inhaling second hand smoke, and lives off a diet of macaroni and cheese, spam, kool aid, canned vegetables, frosted flakes, lucky charms, and flintstone vitamins. When we abuse our selves and our body, our child will be born with unhealthy pre existing conditions. Not all of them will be physically visible. Many of them will be emotional.
In today’s age this is considered child abuse, and in twenty years from now, having a child without the necessary emotional readiness and health will be considered child abuse.
This child now has to UNDO all the damage her mother inflicted upon her when she was pregnant plus on top of all that has to heal her own emotional stress that is specific to her life.
Should women procreate given this information?
Yes of course. Evolution is a steady slow pace, and it is not everyones life purpose or desire to clear ALL their baggage prior to pregnancy. Here are some tips about what you can do during pregnancy to ensure the child is born with a positive head start:
1.) Spend as much time consciously connecting to your child, tell them that you love them, what kind of life you plan for them, how much adventure they will have, how much you will honor all that they are. Do this daily
2.) Practice meditation, this will train your mind to focus on neutral or positive thoughts, for negative ones will impact your child
3.) Breathe deeply and eat healthy, toss away self destructive addictive habits
4.) Focus on having positive relations with your spouse, again, any kind of arguing will affect your child
5.) Learning how to properly communicate. This means learning how to communicate without blame or guilt. How you speak to your child when they are born will affect their self worth. No child deserves to be blamed, shamed, or given guilt trips. My advice is to study: Marshall Rosenbergs course on “non violent communication “. The wisdom to take from this post is to understand the enormous responsibility of bringing a child into this life. Just because a biological clock is ticking doesn’t mean that having a child is for your best and highest interest, your childs, humanitie’s or Earths. We need to be fully aware and conscious of what this entails. Children have the divine right for happiness, and it is so important to assess how much love you are capable of giving them. IF you do not love yourself that much, you will not be able to give anything to a child.
Karolina Dziunikowska, Homeopathic Practitioner
